I asked God to take away my pride, and god said, "No." 
He said it was not for him to take away, but for me to give up. 
I asked God to make my suffering child whole, and God said "No." 
He said her spirit is whole, her body is only temporary. 
I asked God to grant me patience, and God said "No." 
He said that patience is a by-product of tribulation, it isn't granted; it's earned. 
I asked God to give me happiness, and God said "No." 
He said He gives blessings. Happiness is up to me. 
I asked God to spare me pain, and God said "No." 
He said suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to Me. 
I asked God to make my spirit grow, and God said "No." 
He said I must grow on my own, but He will prune me to make me fruitful. 
I asked God if He loved me, and God said "Yes." 
He gave me His only beloved Son who died for me. And I will be in Heaven someday because I believe. 
I asked God to help me love others as much as He loves me. 
And God said, "Ah, finally you have the idea." 
-quoted by E. Dale LeBaron